Fireside for Members with Disabilities Aug. 24, 2014

Please come to the fireside for members with disabilities and also those who participate in special needs mutual (SNM). It will take place on Sunday, August 24, 2014 at 5:00 p.m. at the Windsor Chapel, 1405 N. Main St. in Orem. Sunday dress. All are invited, especially families with special needs members, and stake and ward leaders with special needs members in their organizations. Leaders will be available to answer questions. Refreshments will be served.

Lesson for August 17, 2014

Today our lesson was about being in the world, but not of it . It was given by Megan Miller. Our teacher asked about what makes us a peculiar people. We think we are different. We have a fullness of the gospel. We are centered on family. We have been purchased and need to be humble, so we are a treasured gift because we follow Jesus Christ. We value other religions. We do work for the dead. We have covenants and ordinances. We have a lay ministry. We have standards that are different from the world. We value work. We are striving to be like Christ. Megan asked how keeping the Sabbath day holy has changed us. Laura Card said she never did work or homework on Sunday all through her master’s and PhD and kept the Sabbath for church work and family and everything fell into place. Amy Young said that she thinks that by going to church and taking the sacrament keeps us on track for the rest of the week. Sueann Harding and her husband went camping one weekend and her sister said to bring her Sunday clothes. They went to a little ward and it turned out to be a singles ward. So the family passed the sacrament and said the prayers and it was very spiritual. Barbara Aldridge said her husband wears Sunday clothes even when he has to work at a grungy job on Sundays. Vira Bahr said we should think of what we can do on the Sabbath and not what we can’t do on the Sabbath, so we can give direction to our families. Megan said her family turned dressing up for Sunday into dressing up as scripture characters and the kids loved it. It really is based on each of us and the spirit we bring into the Sabbath. Shanacy said each family is different and needs to decide on how they are going to keep the Sabbath day holy and how we honor the Sabbath. Megan went through the pamphlet “For the Strength of Youth” and found all the parts of the lesson. It said to prepare during the week to keep the Sabbath day holy. Emily Campbell grew up in a Jewish community on Long Island and noticed all the little picky rules and loopholes. She learned that it is the spirit of the law and not the minutia. Switching to the Word of Wisdom we learn that we need to keep our bodies and minds clean. If we do what we should, we will be healthier. Young sister Harker said her husband is a physician and he said if everyone kept the Word of Wisdom he would be out of a job. Another sister said that keeping the Word of Wisdom while growing up outside Utah helped her stay healthy while she watched other girls have health problems. Elder Uchtdorf said that sometimes the benefits of keeping the commandments are not apparent until later. The Lord will give us what we need when we need it. Sister Bahr said that when she learned about the Word of Wisdom before she was baptized, she realized what a blessing it is as she has grown older. You can see in society how debilitating these broken commandments are. Sister Cantrell said that if we obey the law, we will receive benefits, even if we do have some health problems, over the long haul. Sister Campbell said we have to realize that we live in a terrestrial world, so there are many things that can go wrong for us. Spencer W. Kimball was under anesthesia and heard an orderly swear and use the name of the Lord in vain. President Kimball said he loves that person more than anything in the world and the man apologized. The last is to dress modestly. In the pamphlet, it says never lower our standards or use special occasions to justify. We dress modestly because of who we are, not because of what others will think or do. Elder Earl Tingey said he went to Ghana and told him what the church and what we could do for them and an official said we don’t have anything better than others. Then he pulled out the pamphlet and the official was amazed that our youth would adhere. Why do we do all these principles? These are good things to think about. It comes from who we are and we show that by how we live. We are not better, except that the Lord has asked us to be better.

Activity Tuesday, August 19

Join with the sisters this Tuesday evening for a fun activity.

Lesson for July 20, 2014

Lesson for July 20, 2014 Today our lesson was given by Megan Miller on Chapters 15 and 17 on “Eternal Marriage” and “Sealing Power and Temple Blessings.” President Smith said there is no ordinance more necessary than eternal marriage. It is the most important because it works the hardest to perfect you. Part of being exalted. It’s the start of everything, the family, an eternal bond between partners. It is a good way to become like Christ. It is one of our jobs to bring spirits into the world. All faithful women will have the opportunity. D&C 131:1-4 says that there are three heavens or degrees and to enter into the highest, we must be married and sealed in the temple. We need someone else to make it to the highest. Some of the blessings include balance. As a child there is comfort and surety being raised in such a family. We get companionship, friendship, a partner raising children. Support and love. Marriage is not just a civil contract—it is in fact, an eternal principle—so much more than how the world views. The world sees it as disposable. If it becomes difficult, people get divorced or the marriage annulled. It is not just two people’s paychecks. A lot of people see it as convenience and a tax benefit. There is no real commitment or effort required. An eternal marriage is something solid in life. It requires sacrifice and a focus on our partners. President Hinckley said that a sacrifice is giving up something good for something better. The knowledge that we have an eternal marriage brings with it more responsibility. The person who lives worthy to marry in the temple commits to that marriage long before that marriage takes place, so an eternal marriage actually starts early in life. In the story of Adam and Eve, there was no second wife created. There was permanence. Some things to do to preserve our marriages is to wear our garments and wear them worthily. Emily Campbell said that her friends are getting divorced and it has upset her own children, so it has had an effect on her family. It is important to always have each other’s back and support each other no matter what. It is important in our own marriage to not compare our marriage with others’ marriage because we only see the good side. It is important to pray together. It is important to realize that in a relationship, we only have control over one person in our marriage. If you want to be like Christ and you try to be like Him, it makes all the difference. It is important to teach children the difference and how to be Christlike. How can we share the message with the world? Not hide that it is hard work and it is a covenant, but that we can be successful. One of the biggest selling point of the Church is eternal families. Even though many people are married until death, they really believe that their marriages will be eternal. The way you draw closer to someone is through service. Family scripture study and companion study is important and so is individual study. You can draw closer to God through having children. Having opportunities to forgive and be forgiven can also draw couples closer together. It’s good to know that someone loves us enough not to write us off. We have to learn how to navigate our relationship with our spouse just as we have to learn to navigate our relationship with God. Those who do not marry in this life and who live worthy of the temple covenants will reap the blessings of the temple covenants. The best explanation Charlene Farnworth heard a temple sealer saying that covenants must be kept in order for the sealing to take place. By keeping an eternal perspective, we know that this life is a temporary situation that is not fair and we know that in the eternities all will be made fair, even though we can’t figure it out now. Knowing that we belong to something bigger than we are will give us comfort. One way to understand the bigger picture is to do family history and temple ordinances for our ancestors so we can see that we belong to something bigger than ourselves. We can share doing indexing and family history with our children. Our testimony of the Savior will be deepened and we will be safeguarded, according to Elder Bednar.

Lesson for July 13, 2014

Lesson for July 13, 2014 Today our lesson was given by Maggie Kopp about two chapters: Baptism and The Gift of the Holy Ghost. We know that the first and second ordinances of the gospel are baptism and the gift of the Holy Ghost, but the things that stood out to Maggie, were the first things we should know about baptism. She remembers her interview and being able to answer all the questions. Another sister remembers being all in white and looking in the mirror and feeling strong and excited to be part of the gospel. President Smith discussed the symbolism of baptism. Maggie divided us up into groups to discuss baptism and the symbolism associated with it. Maggie likened baptism to birth and also to death and resurrection. Some of the scriptures she referred us to were Moses 6:58-60; John 3:3-8; Romans 6:4; and Matthew 3:16-17. Some of the things we thought of were that we are being born into the kingdom of God, no matter what age we are. Once a child is born it becomes separate from the mother and once a person is baptized he/she is accountable for their own sins. Once a person is baptized, he/she takes on Christ’s identity. Sister Davis’s son thought the word accountable sounded like “a cannibal” and he didn’t want to do that. Baptism is a symbol of rebirth, or resurrection as the baptized person becomes a new person with a new life. We bury our old life and leave it behind so we can take part in our new life. As we look back on our own baptism, we’ve learned to keep covenants. Emily Campbell said they taught their children leading up to baptism just like a new convert would be taught so it could be their choice. We need to mention the gift of the Holy Ghost, because we learn so much once we have that gift. We don’t have to know everything about the gospel and that we are willing to commit to learning more after baptism. The basic testimony and commitment are what are necessary and will carry us through. Sister Aldridge said she has learned that she can start fresh each week by taking the sacrament. Maggie’s grandpa said that he remembered being baptized and after he accidentally ripped his pants and swore and thought he’d messed up his baptism. So because babies are sinless, it really seems odd to baptize children. President Smith said that it was a vision that gave the church the idea that eight was the proper age. Amy Young said we need to teach kids that we are all trying and making mistakes and that they can repent and take the sacrament to make themselves clean again. Also, that Jesus is waiting for them to come back to them. We covenant to keep the commandments and we would prove to God that we are willing to live by the word of God with humility and diligence. Sister Cantrell said that the most important thing is to remember that we can always have the Spirit to be with us if we keep the commandments. Sister Harding said we need to be good representatives of Christ and good examples. Do we have the Holy Spirit with us and being Christ-like. Maggie said that our baptismal covenants are indicative of being saved by works and grace of the Atonement. Our baptism is incomplete unless we receive the Holy Ghost. We can do lots of things and not receive the Holy Ghost, unless we are blessed by the gift. Joseph Smith said that baptizing someone without giving them the gift of the Holy Ghost was as effective as baptizing a bag of sand. We should focus on receiving and keeping the Holy Spirit with us at all times and that includes all the things we should do to keep the gospel in remembrance and at the forefront of our thoughts. All the things we do should be to keep the Holy Ghost and having the Holy Ghost with us helps us do the thing we should, so it’s kind of like an endless loop. Sister Lewis said that when we receive revelation, we need to act on it so the Lord knows we value revelation and then we can ask for more. Sister Boyadjian said it is the verb to act and to do. It is as if are drive the car and we can see the road, but if we do not act upon the appropriate rules of driving, we will crash. Sister Cantrell said we need to pray always and the Lord will direct us. We need to do the work so we can get the promptings to make right choices. Gratitude is a key to having revelation in our life. President Smith said it is the privilege of every member to know the truth and gain the light.

July 6, 2014 lesson

Lesson for 6 July 2014 Today our lesson was taught by Irma Lopez, titled “Sisterhood, O How We Need Each Other.” Irma showed us the video that went with Sister Oscarson’s conference talk about how important it is to share ourselves with other sisters in the gospel. In the video several groups of sisters of all ages from all over the Church sang, “I Am A Child of God.” Irma asked Amy Young to share her experience of being in the Conference Center and Amy said it was amazing. Irma said it is our privilege to be women in the Church and to belong to that society that is a great force for goodness. Heather Cantrell read a quote about the international nature of our society. Irma said it is magical that we all belong to the same society. No matter where we go in the world, we have a home in a ward or branch where the lessons and the doctrine and the meetings are the same. Emily Campbell said she doesn’t bicker with us like she did with her sisters, but we are sisters. Many sisters in the ward said we all feel like sisters. We are all going through different stages and different ages, so no matter where we come from or what part of life we’re in, we can all be sisters and have beautiful friendships. Irma said she came into our ward 21 years ago, from a ward where her best friend was in Relief Society. She is still her good friend. She is available to Irma for prayers and encouragement and to talk to when she has problems. Bonnie said she lived in Cleveland, Ohio and had lots of friends, but she felt she needed a special friend. She prayed for a friend and Michelle moved into the ward, but her husband was immediately transferred. She is still Bonnie’s good friend. Irma said the adversary is always telling us we are not good enough, instead of saying that we have wonderful traits. She pointed out that we should not compare ourselves to others, but learn new things. Sister Bahr read a quote about not judging ourselves, but seeing ourselves with compassion and recognize our divine background. Our desire is to lift up one another and serve one another. Irma said we need to help people as sisters. Emily Campbell said that women have a biological need to connect with other women. Barbara Aldridge said sometimes only a woman can understand another woman. Only a woman will get it. Irma said she asked several women who they go to when they have problems. Many said their sisters, or another woman friend. Some said Heavenly Father and then another woman. Jessica Lewis said that when we were baptized we covenanted to take on each others’ burdens. Sister Oscarson in her talk said we need to rely on each other. She told of a little girl named Sarah and went with her mother to help another little girl who had multiple sclerosis. She learned to be compassionate and caring for another. Another story she told about the relationship between Mary and Elizabeth as they supported one another through their pregnancies—old and young who strengthened each other. Amy Young said she has met sisters in every situation in life through visiting teaching, and these women are her friends still. They have given her wonderful advice and she has wonderful friendships through visiting teaching. Irma said we have much to contribute to each other. Heather said she has a friend who is a Methodist, but she was gathered in by the local Relief Society who helped her through an illness 24 hours a day for two years. Sister Oscarson’s mother walked to church on her own as a child because she had Primary teachers who loved her. Another story is about an 81 year old sister who was called to be a MIA Maid advisor and who brought wisdom and love to the girls and the girls helped her. Irma asked how we can include the young women to get them to see that Relief Society is for them, too. In one ward, they included the younger sisters once a month. Sister Campbell said we need to include them. One young sister said she wanted to join Relief Society from the time she turned 18 and she thinks she liked going to activities with the Relief Society. Sometimes it would be good to recognize the young women and say hello to them and invite them to sit with us. We can find out what is going on in the high school, so we can tell the youth that we saw them. Sister Oscarson said we have each other and are rich in connections so we can nurture and serve each other.

RS activity for July--Canyon Activity

July 15th! Join us for the July activity up the canyon. You do not want to miss this activity! We will have fun together, along with a campfire and s'mores, although you can bring other desserts, too. Meet in the church parking lot at 5:45 to carpool up.